r/BDSMAdvice

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A warm, diverse, inclusive group of friendly, knowledgeable, kinky people. Here to provide assistance, education & relationship advice. If you're looking for graphic content, or overtly sexual material, we're not the place for you. Have an issue in your kinky relationship? Want to know more about a specific technique? Think you have a fetish, but don't know what to call it? You're not alone. Ask us.

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